I’d like to share with you a way of thinking “blocks” and “problems” that has given me great peace, even during difficult times in my life.  I think you’ll benefit from this way of thinking, too. It all started one day while I was talking to my friend Ellen. I mentioned to her that I … Continued

  The Bible tells us to be generous. And, of course, generosity sounds great in the abstract. However, when the time comes to actually BE generous, it’s easy to find reasons to not give. And that’s the trap of generosity. If you get stuck in trap, it will be hard to be as generous in … Continued

  I’d like to share with you a way of thinking “blocks” and “problems” that has given me great peace, even during difficult times in my life.  I think you’ll benefit from this way of thinking, too.   It all started one day while I was talking to my friend Ellen. I mentioned to her … Continued

  Today I’d like to give you some tips on how to handle anger the Christian way. Now, sometimes we all get angry. But as Christians, anger represents a special challenge because we’re told in Ephesians 4:31 to … “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of … Continued

It turns out that there are three levels of emotional development. Spoiler alert: When most men do their “personal work,” they only get to the first two levels. Let me explain: The first level of emotional development: On the first level of emotional development, you want what you want when you want it, and your … Continued

In my workshops and coaching, people often ask me, “but why am I this way?” “Why am I shy with the people I’m attracted to?” “Why do I have a hard time feeling love and support?” “Why do I have difficulty making decisions?” “Why do I have a hard time setting boundaries with people?” … … Continued

Today, I am sick. I have a cold, a stupid cold. And it’s not respecting my schedule of things I need to get done. So today I want to talk briefly about men, illness, and their bodies.   And about how men respond to being sick by withdrawing themselves from God’s love and mercy. Have you ever … Continued